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(EXPERIENCE) Others Don't Have To Lose So You Can Win

One of the most maladaptive ideas is the concept of the 'lone wolf' when it comes to any business/creative/spiritual pursuits.

People often believe that they have to become ruthlessly competitive and disregard the feelings of their 'competitors' or 'community' that share the same interests/demographic/market to them in order to achieve the goals that they have set for themselves.

This is why the vast majority ultimately fail.

Once you believe that only you can succeed and only you should drink from the 'fountain of success' is the moment you become defeated by your own ego. You are harming yourself.

For you to 'win', for you to succeed, others do not have to fall behind or underneath you. To quote a very influential entrepreneur who has had a massive impact on my practices, Gary Vaynerchuck, 'everybody can win'.

Stop being salty, and start bringing people up. The same people you may throw shade towards may be the same people that one day help you get a step closer to where you want to be. Make relationships, not enemies - others don't have to lose just so you can win.

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